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Lordy, Lordy, Look Who’s… 30!

January 23, 2013

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Today is my 30th birthday! Yikes! I tried to come up with a fun rhyme for the title of this post, but I ended up feeling a lot like the Swedish Chef from the Muppets… I think I would be a lot more freaked out about it if I wasn’t pregnant, I guess the baby is a good distraction. Still, it’s pretty strange to me to be turning 30 years old. I’ve been thinking about all the things I thought I would have accomplished by now; here are a few:

  1. Married by 26 and have at least 1 child by 30. Well… Apparently, when I was making this demand from Life I didn’t use the appropriate amount of lawyerly precision. I wasn’t married by 26 – I was married less than a month before my 27th birthday. I guess I technically have a baby, but not one that’s born yet, which was what I meant. I’m going to count these ones as accomplished though. Start things off on the positive side.
  2. Written and published a book of poetry. Going back and reading my high school poetry I can see that this was never going to happen. It’s embarrassingly bad. But I’m still writing! I mean, I’ve got the blog, right? And I’m trying to start writing more creative stuff…
  3. Opened a Restaurant/Night Club. Hahahahaha! This was a short lived and ill-conceived idea. I’m happy it didn’t happen. I wouldn’t mind opening a little bakery though.
  4. Become a lawyer. Check! Here the lack of precision works in my favor – I never said “practicing” attorney.

Then I started to think of the things I wanted to accomplish in the next 30 years and it was more difficult. 30 years is a long time! My ideas were all so abstract – happy marriage; happy/successful kids; work harder to maintain friendships, etc. For a second, I panicked. Have I lost all my motivation?? There wasn’t a single specific goal I wanted to set for myself. I tried to think harder, do I want to have $1 million saved in the bank? Do I need to travel to China? Should I learn a new language or perfect a new skill? But the truth is, while those things are nice, I’m not going to be unhappy or disappointed if I don’t achieve them.

That’s when I realized that even though turning 30 is a little scary, I don’t need those detailed deadlines like I used to. The abstract is worth working on now because the most important specifics to me are checked off the list. I finally feel like I have some things figured out! I have a husband who makes me happy; I have my first baby on the way. Whatever happens next is the fun part of life! Now that things are settled I can finally enjoy them. It’s like I spent the first 30 years of my life building my “house” and now I get to live in it. Sure, there will be maintenance and I might have to make some changes, but the hardest part is done.

While turning 30 still freaks me out a little, I take comfort in the fact that life is really just beginning. The best is yet to come, as they say. Nothing could make me happier than going forward with Timmy at my side, keeping me company, making me smile, and cheering me on. I’m confident that my next 30 years are going to be even better than the first 30. Happy Birthday to Me!!

What?! Like you were never awkward!

What?! Like you were never awkward?!

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10 Comments leave one →
  1. Uncle Tom permalink
    January 23, 2013 11:41 am

    Happy Birthday, Melissa!
    You are aging beautifully, judging by the photos. I hope you have a great day.
    Uncle Tom

  2. Mary Kay permalink
    January 23, 2013 11:45 am

    Happy Birthday, Melissa. Your post is lovely, as are you. I’m happy to be a part of a life so well-lived. Enjoy your day…and the rest of your life!

  3. Mom permalink
    January 23, 2013 12:06 pm

    Happy Birthday to my wonderful Daughter! I love you.

  4. January 23, 2013 12:24 pm

    Happy Birthday friend! xo

  5. January 23, 2013 12:31 pm

    Happy Birthday dear friend I am so glad that you have let me be apart of the last 14+ years of your very accomplished life and hope that we are just as close for the next 30. I love you and I can not wait to meet your little baby girl.

  6. Aunt Chris (Chris Hopkins) permalink
    January 23, 2013 1:04 pm

    Happy birthday, Melissa. I wish you well today and for the rest of your life! Your priorities are in the right place and no matter what life brings your way you will be a success! Love you!

  7. January 23, 2013 1:04 pm

    Thirties is THE BEST.
    You’re financially stable. You still have the looks. You have a much better idea of what you want. You have true friends. I love being in my thirties!!! Happy Birthday!

  8. Aunt Tricia permalink
    January 23, 2013 1:18 pm

    Happy Birthday Melissa. Enjoy your day (Oh and Nanny says Happy Birthday too! )

  9. Ann Marie permalink
    January 23, 2013 1:20 pm

    Happy Birthday. I thought Timmy was an unbelievably cute baby. My goodness, you were too, Melissa! Jane has a great genetic head start!

  10. Rose permalink
    January 23, 2013 5:06 pm

    Happy Birthday Melissa! Your Brownie picture is adorable, as are the others. Hope you and Trish had a wonderful day today!

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